Tuesday, February 7, 2012

Nothing Left to Lose






This traumatic saga began on Dec. 7, 2009 when a 28-year old mother of two from West Valley City, Utah was reported missing after she failed to arrive at work. The mother, Susan Powell, has never been found. An investigation revealed that her husband, Josh Powell, said that he took his two boys camping in Utah in the middle of the night, in the midst of a blizzard. At the very least, this was very odd and suspicious. At the most, this could be a story of Josh Powell murdering his wife and hiding her body.


Soon after Susan disappeared, Josh moved his remaining family to Washington state, to live with his father, Steve Powell. 


Fast forward to September, 2011, when Steve Powell, was arrested for voyeurism and having child pornography on his computer. Josh, who was residing in the house, lost his sons to Child Protective Services, who placed them in the home of his in-laws.


Last Wednesday, all involved parties attended a hearing for custody, where a judge ruled that the children, then ages seven and five, would remain with their maternal grandparents. Susan still had not surfaced.


Then, on Sunday, Feb. 5, a representative from CPS in Washington took the boy’s to visit with Josh in what was to be a supervised visitation session. The boy’s ran ahead of the representative into the arms of their father, who immediately took them inside, locked the door, locking out the representative. He then attacked both sons with a hatchet before igniting a fire that exploded and killed all three of them.



Whether or not he murdered his wife, I do not know. His ability to carry out the brutal murder of his children tends to illustrate his ability to murder his wife. This is a tragic story.


According to reports, his oldest son had drawn a picture of the final family trip camping in which the child had said that his mother was in the trunk on that trip.


Had CPS not removed the children, would they still be alive? I can remotely understand the hurt and isolation that he felt that might have led to him taking his own life. But for the life of me, I will never be able to understand his desire to brutally murder his children, who had done nothing wrong. 


I don’t think that anything short of serious mental illness could have led to this case of domestic violence at its absolute worst. I think that once the Judge ordered a psychosexual evaluation along with a polygraph test, he knew that he would not pass both, and would never have custody of his sons again. Maybe he knew that an arrest for his wife’s disappearance would be imminent.

The forensic analysis will continue on this case for years.

Obviously, he was in a position in which he felt that he had nothing left to lose. Loss of hope can be an eerie thing. Did the public opinion contribute to this?

Do we need a better way of getting treatment for the mentally ill?

I don’t blame anyone in this tragic story but Josh. But, had he been able to retain his dignity, I am not sure that we would be looking at the tragic ending that we are seeing.

But those are just some of my thoughts on this heinous crime. What are yours? 


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Thankfulness Challenge and Joy Dare


Today I am thankful for :


38. The gathering of the Saints.
39. Active, healthy, happy boys.
40. The cool weather of February.
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Vaccine for Heroine Addiction?


According to information from the Latin American Herald Tribune, a vaccine has been patented in Mexico to prevent Heroine addiction. This vaccine has successfully be tested on rats and now will need about five years of Human Testing.
Linking up with Laura Boggess today at:




copyright 2012 by Kathy Robbins

Monday, February 6, 2012

Stress Relief Idea #26


Create order out of chaos. Organize your home and workspace so that you always know exactly where things are. Put things away where they belong and you won't have to go through the stress of losing things.
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Thankfulness Challenge and Joy Dare

Today, I am thankful for:


36. Big hugs from my boys.
37. The songs of birds.


copyright 2012 by Kathy Robbins

Monday, January 30, 2012

Stress Relief Idea #25


Get enough sleep. If necessary, use an alarm clock to remind you to go to bed.

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Thankfulness Challenge- Today I am thankful for:


32. Beautiful, dark, blowing clouds at dawn.
33. God's grace.
34. Waking up.




copyright 2012 by Kathy Robbins

Friday, January 27, 2012

Five Minute Fridays-Tender






I love having a garden. I first started a garden when my boys were babies. We planted various vegetables: cucumbers tomato plants, squash, bell peppers and hibenero peppers. We watched with excitement and hope as they began sprouting from the dark ground with the tender sprouts at first. We checked each day to see the progress. We pulled weeds as they grew to protect the plants from being overcome by them; to assure that all of the moisture and all of the nutrients would feed the plants that we wanted fed.


All of life is like our garden. Some seeds grow and some not. We have to protect ourselves from the weeds that sprout and attempt to steal the nourishment from us. Weeds can be anything that serves to steal our time, our nutrients, our water. They are the things in our lives that we don't want when we actually take time to think about things. Things that rob our time are weeds. And, we are like the tender sprout growing that over time might become strong. In the meantime, may we guard our time and talents and resources from the extraneous things that will usurp the nutrition that we need in the Lord. Amen.

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Thankfulness Challenge and Joy Dare: Today I am thankful for:

29. Phone calls from good friends that are an oasis in a dry day.
30. Faithful members of our Chrysalis Board.
31. A good night's rest.






Linking up with The Gypsy Mama






copyright 2012 by Kathy Robbins

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Book Challenge



As my previous posts, “Hacked”  and “I Know You Didn't Just Unfriend Me!” probably inadvertently revealed, I am a Facebook junkie. There: I admitted it. I just love Facebook. No matter what time of the day or night, there is always something to do there. Although it might be said that I have spent an excessive amount of time, I have reduced the amount of time that I spend there, and am therefore doing better. After I reached Level 600, I quit playing Mafia Wars. I got bored with Poker and Bejeweled. Then I found Words With Friends: Oops! 


One application that I found via Facebook is Goodreads. I love this website! Goodreads is a social networking book site. A member can join for free and then log in the books that he or she has read and is reading. If someone wants to write a book review of a book, then there is a place for doing this. If you are considering getting a book, you can go here to read reviews and ratings for that book.


Goodreads encourages members to connect with one another and compare reading lists. I love to follow the reading of some of my friends, who have quite a repertoire. Sometimes, I select books on their lists for me to read. 


I was relating this to a friend, who was asking me why I was reading a “high-brow” book. I explained to her that I had found it on the reading list of a friend and decided to read it. She asked me, “Are you going to do the book report too?” Well, now, I can say yes. Because most of the books that I read are reviewed on this blog.



There is also a place for setting a reading goal for the year. Last year, I set my goal at thirty books. I met this goal the week of December 31. This year for my fourth challenge, I am setting my reading goal at forty books. I hope to surpass this, but I will stick to forty. I never tracked them for an entire year before until I joined Goodreads.


Something that I found on the site recently is book giveaways. So far, I have won three books from the book giveaways. They have all been great books, so far. I look at the long list of books, and put in an entry for the ones that interest me. As many books as I plan to read, winning books definitely helps my budget.


Join me in my quest to read in 2012. Better yet, click here to connect to my profile. 
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Thankfulness Challenge: Today, I am thankful for:

26. My son's 14th birthday today.
27. A wonderful thunderstorm with a lot of rain last night.
28. Friends who laugh with me at my mistakes.

copyright 2012 by Kathy Robbins

Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Stress Relief Idea #24


Wear earplugs. If you need to find some quiet at home, wear earplugs.
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Thankfulness Challenge:


11. Macaroni and Cheese
12. Nephews and one Niece
13. Dinner around the table with family.
14. Holy Communion.
15. Fruitful meetings.
16. A car that runs.
17. Good friends.
18. Followers on my blog.
19. Beautiful flowers.
20. Safe travels
21. Well-mannered sons.
22. A refrigerator that runs.
23. Daily phone calls from my son three states away.
24. Police Officers.
25. Mountain Dew.

copyright 2012 by Kathy Robbins

Friday, January 20, 2012

Vivid-Five Minute Fridays



I have had vivid dreams all of my life. I mean these are as good as action-packed adventure movies--in color and constantly changing. They usually aren't scary. Sometimes they have a meaning that I can discern, but most of the time, I only remember bits and pieces. And of what I can remember, it doesn't seem to have any intelligent meaning beyond the obvious.


Sometimes, I dream about my father. I was the first in the family to dream about him after he died. They say that whenever you dream about someone who has died, that means that they actually visited you . How sweet these dreams about my father are. One year, it was the anniversary of his death and I had forgotten. I was busy and didn't realize that the date was upon us. That night, I had a vivid dream about him. It was great to see him. After I woke up, I realized the date. Coincidence? What do you think?

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My Thankfulness Challenge-The Joy Dare from Ann Voskamp--On the road to 1,000---


Today I am thankful for--
5. Beautiful days
6. Healthy body
7. Prayers
8. Mid-Winter Camp for my son.
9. Pastors
10. A book won in a contest.

Linking up with the Gypsy Mama for Five Minute Fridays.








copyright 2012 by Kathy Robbins